Yemi Alade, a Nigerian singer and songwriter, has revealed how she would inform a man with whom she had sex that he wasn’t excellent in bed.
The self-proclaimed Mama Africa, speaking on the sex and relationship podcast “Aylipservice,” said it’s “very upsetting” when a man is richly endowed in the groin region but doesn’t know how to use it on a lady.
When asked how she would tell a man his bedmatics skills aren’t up to par, the singer said she would have a dialogue with him and suggest they try a different sex position instead of the one she didn’t like.
She cautioned, however, that this strategy would not work because Nigerian men might believe she has slept with other men, which is why she wants him to experiment with different sex positions.
The 33-year-old musician went on to say that Nigerian men are egotistical and that telling them they aren’t excellent in bed could hurt their pride.
Watch her speak in the video below.